Self-Development in Therapy
Transform Your Personal Qualities by Harnessing the Power of Personal Development
Therapy
Did you know that your self-perception can significantly shape your outcomes? It’s fascinating! Our past experiences often unconsciously play out in our daily lives through transference. It can profoundly impact how we connect with ourselves and others.
Another Hope Counselling specialise in helping you unearth those experiences and work through them. We can meet online across the nation, or in person, in Leeds, Manchester, Yorkshire, and the Humber.
Are you struggling to let go of what no longer works for you? Do you experience low self-esteem and struggle to embrace change? The exciting part is the journey starts from within! With a supportive therapeutic relationship and expert guidance, you can truly discover your personal development needs.
Living to thrive rather than in hopelessness is the essence of Another Hope Counselling and Psychotherapy Service. It has been built on experiences of pain and loss, helping to meet needs by offering professional psychological therapy to individuals and executives. Each session provides a therapeutic space for you to share your thoughts, feelings, and issues.
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Our approach here is first conversational, collaborative, and friendly. It helps you create space within yourself. It is a space you may not realise you have to balance acceptance with compassion and change.
Working closely enables you to strengthen your self-awareness and address intrapsychic and relational issues. Yet enhances your productivity, improves your low self-confidence and self-worth. Together in each session, we will review your self-narrative to support your well-being through self-development therapy.
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Adeola Iluyomade, as a trauma-informed therapist, aims to support you and understands how difficult it can be to confront complex feelings and the fear of practising self-compassion, especially when long-standing core beliefs and patterns of self-rejection or neglect remain. Remember, you still have the ability to make a difference. Many people find it easy to show kindness to others but struggle with perfectionism and self-criticism, making it hard to intentionally be kind to themselves. Does this resonate with you? We can meet for face-to-face online therapy sessions nationwide. Depending on your location, and based on availability we offer in-person counselling in Leeds, Greater Manchester, the West Midlands, and Yorkshire. Leeds therapy sessions are flexible during the week.
Transforming Limiting Beliefs into Empowering Patterns for Personal Development
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Understandably, some social beliefs view personal development therapy as a luxury rather than an expense for everyday basic needs, which most can relate to.
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While valuing ourselves as the engine that makes each day possible is crucial, personal issues, such as excessive self-consciousness, fear of abandonment, and more, can make everyday tasks tedious and challenging, creating a need for meaningful attention.​​
Are You Holding Beliefs that no longer serve You?
If these resonate with you, we can embark on a self-discovery journey to uncover deeply ingrained patterns in your experiences that shape your very essence. These patterns may seem comfortable and familiar, but may have outlived their usefulness. If unresolved, it traps one in the past by reinforcing self-limiting beliefs, at least. It often leads to emotional turmoil and conflicts within and across one's relationships, affecting daily life.
Let's envision your Uniqueness
Another Hope Counselling Service’s vision emphasise your individuality. We values thorough exploration by offering a psychodynamic therapy approach—a fundamental framework that supports your experiences throughout life. This may involve examining issues that impact your identity, which can sometimes mislead, distort, or limit your outlook and expectations, both personally and in relationships. Our work may include integrating other psychological techniques, such as relational therapy and specialised psychoanalysis, tailored to your needs. It involves working with you, adapting resources to your unique personality and needs, fostering healing where wounds exist by understanding, and building resilience, developing self-confidence, strengthening character, and increasing productivity.
Let’s explore reasons to enhance your Self-Narratives for incredible personal development.
We often realise the narrative, though it started in childhood, when we enter relationships: we would usually seek partners who are for us—to love and support us—with the expectation of feeling fulfilled.
But then we are often unaware of our own disconnection, which no human can fill but us. While well-intentioned, these relationships can reflect and reinforce unconscious, irrational core self-beliefs, narratives, and unmet needs, creating a dysfunctional cycle that leaves one feeling stuck.​​
Once again, partners can unconsciously attract each other, driven by a deep-seated need to fill a void unintentionally created by their childhood experiences. This dynamic illustrates a ‘couple’s fit’ and attachment. While it can lead to or justify issues such as blame when partners impose logically meaningful but unattainable demands on each other, it can also hinder self-awareness and stop individuals from fully embracing personal growth and self-confidence. As a result, it limits one’s ability to thrive, reach their full potential, and create a better life. It can manifest as self-judgment, condemnation, and problematic patterns in a relationship.
Parents can also unconsciously create an environment that speaks to unresolved issues they may have overlooked which they wish to address in and for their children. This can unintentionally result in strict parental rules that, in turn, may shape and restrict beliefs and relationship patterns. These rules often reflect parts of a longstanding, unresolved story that can be passed down through generations.
Additionally, families and parents’ unintentional manifesting these inflexible beliefs can contribute to this process, leading to a new generation of children who are highly likely to be emotionally misunderstood. They may encounter identity issues and more, growing into adults with unresolved problems despite their parents’ best intentions and material support.
Surprisingly, some of these generational, family, and self-narratives shape childhood and who one become. If experiences involve dilemmas, trauma, or misunderstandings without resolution, they can naturally lead to the unconscious development of anxiety, sometimes alongside depression. However, many remain hidden for a high-functioning person. While most psychological problems and health issues coexist with anxiety and depression, unresolved unmet emotional needs are often the root cause.
These issues include emotional dysregulation, self-rejection, unexplained pain, low self-esteem, bowel problems, anger issues, and more. While contributing to physical symptoms and worsening health, some of these narratives reflect a culture of normalised social occurrences that often restrict an individual's potential. We can maximise potential and enhance self-awareness in personal development.